Friend/dating issues? Please help!?

ok. well she is being defensive. i mean if your friends. she knows you....she knows you won't hurt him......so i don't see why talking to him is not allowed. i mean yes its her ex. and she might still be hurt by that or something.....but you talking to him shouldn't be an issue. tell her that your going to talk to him cause it isn't a crime. that you two will be no more then friends. and that way you are both under terms that make you both happy. Hope this helps. ert you place in this situation. your strong you can do it. Good Luck. God Bless!!!